You probably have heard the comments about being authentic or finding your true self. Many people have asked themselves the question "Who am I? A better question would be "Who do I want to be?'
It doesn't matter whether you know your true self or not, it's very possible to become the person you want to be by your own design. The first step is deciding who you want to be and then start your road map. It really is just that easy. However, the hardest part will be getting through the self doubt, fear, and all those other emotions that keep you frozen.
When I work with my clients the first step that we take is simply to visualize, or use their imagination to experience events and relationships that would make them smile. The key to this exercise is to avoid interrupting the process my thinking about why you can't accomplish this or thinking about all of the roadblocks that might get in your way. Just Imagine!
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